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The Gap Method

One of the easiest ways to truly get to know someone is to get in a car with them

How to they behave on the road,

Jade Teta calls it ‘The gap method’ (or something like that)

Do they let other drivers merge or do they close the gap so that they can get a little further ahead

Do they shout and swear at other drivers for holding them up, start tailgating and acting like an utter asshole

There’s a good indicator that these behaviours would show up somewhere else in there life

Imagine if your walking down the street with this person and someone walks in front of them and they get right up behind the Walker and start swearing at them

It’s not acceptable on the street, it’s not acceptable in a car

If someone’s not willing to help another driver and let them merge because it may hold them up by 10 seconds

Then are they going to help another progress at work or help you somewhere in your life at the risk of holding themselves up

Probably not

I used to be the road raging asshole, I always ended up stopped at the same traffic lights.

Help one and another

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Do not stumble on something behind you

Seneca

On this road we call life, we’re supposed to be heading forwards into the misty unknown

Yet we always end up falling backwards

Overstuff, we passed miles back,

Over the past.

Something that has happened and we have absolutely no control over.
Yet it’s like we’re walking in circles always returning to the same nightmare
When the exit is just straight ahead.

Let it go, Move forward

After all, you don’t want to still be carrying a nightmare when you arrive at another one

Do not stumble on something behind you

Seneca

On this road we call life, we’re supposed to be heading forwards into the misty unknown

Yet we always end up falling backwards

Overstuff, we passed miles back,

Over the past.

Something that has happened and we have absolutely no control over.
Yet it’s like we’re walking in circles always returning to the same nightmare
When the exit is just straight ahead.

Let it go, Move forward

After all, you don’t want to still be carrying a nightmare when you arrive at another one

Seneca

On this road we call life, we’re supposed to be heading forwards into the misty unknown

Yet we always end up falling backwards

Overstuff, we passed miles back,

Over the past.

Something that has happened and we have absolutely no control over.
Yet it’s like we’re walking in circles always returning to the same nightmare
When the exit is just straight ahead.

Let it go, Move forward

After all, you don’t want to still be carrying a nightmare when you arrive at another one

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Walk on road, hm?

Walk on road, hm?

Walk left side, safe. Walk right side, safe. Walk middle, sooner or later…get squish just like grape.

Mr Miyagi

Or as Yoda says, Do or do not there is no try

It doesn’t matter what we do in life, we just need to commit to it

I’ll try, or I’ll guess I’ll give it ago, yeah maybe… whatever it is that your not fully committed to isn’t worth attempting as it’s just a waste of precious time

I’ll try and quit smoking, I’ll give that diet ago,

You already know after a couple of meals your not going to stick at it

This is true for everything in life, left or right, just make a decision and get out of the road