When you pulled out too soon.
I was on this 5 day training program with Garret J White and he tells this story of when you put children through swim survival lessons
And as traumatic as it can be to watch you cannot pull the child out until they have passed training otherwise they’ll be traumatised for life and have panic attacks etc when they enter the water…
Now this applies to everything else we do in life too…
We try something new, it’s scary do we continue or quit?
I had a Road Traffic Collision once and was swiped along the motorway by an artic truck
Courtesy car arrived the next day and I was driving again, the day after back on the motorway… a little shaky but still on there.
Then I had to return the Car and didn’t bother getting a new one for like a year
And guess what
Since I hadn’t been on the motorway since the last time the simple thought of it petrified me, so I avoided them for another year…
I pulled out to soon aka not constantly going on them after the accident so the fear had grown in my mind
And I was traumatised so to speak…
Where across your life did you pull out too soon
And now the thought of doing x scares the hell out of you
And what can you start doing taking the steps to conquer that fear