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Small hinges

Small hinges open big doors.

Small actions create big changes

Yet we never focus on the small actions or small hinges.

We wanna do it big

We want to go all out

We want the over night success

Yet that normally leaves us overwhelmed and quitting after 2 weeks

When we haven’t become a crypto millionaire or lost 10 years of bad habits over 2 weeks

But the small actions over time lead to big results, lasting results

Results that we could never achieve with the random acts of bigness

Where in your life can you go small to do big

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Lies make you sick

Lies make you sick.

Lies including keeping things unsaid and not talking about your hopes and dreams all make you sick,

they get pushed down and you become inauthentic and have no real relationships your living a half truth and and reality isn’t real it’s just a lie you’ve created.

You become sick crushed under the weight of your lies and cant escape because you have no one to talk too and even if you did you wouldn’t know how to communicate nothing but fairness

Start communicating properly tell people how you feel, tell people what your thinking, stop lying

At first this will be difficult but with reps you get better and stronger at communicating

With reps reality becomes clearer
With reps communicating becomes easier
With reps your relationships become stronger

Stop lying
Start living

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You’ve sidelined yourself

You’ve sidelined yourself

Now your watching the game of life play out in front of you.

Your watching others do the work you should be doing.

Your watching others get the results you should be getting.

Whilst you sit there and watch.

Whilst you sit there bitching and moaning.

But the stupid thing is…

You benched yourself.

But the good thing is…

You can unbench yourself, you can get up, you can do the work, you can stop moaning.

Because no one else is going to do it for you.

This game we call life…

Only you can control you.

So if you dont like where you are…

Change the way you are playing

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Perfection is an Anchor

Perfection is an Anchor

It weighs you down and stops you from moving forward.

When this is perfect I can do this
I can put it onto market
I can make some money or generate leads

Stop those thoughts because they are stopping you from progressing and moving forward

Perfection is the friend that looks like they’re helping but really they’re using you to stay afloat whilst your drowning

Perfection will sink you.

Good is great if the world sees it
Good can be improved upon
But the world will never see perfection

So do the work
But make sure you show it to the world

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Actions and Loneliness

Actions and Loneliness
Nobody is coming to save you…

There was a period in the past 12 months where I experienced chronic loneliness, If you follow my blog you would have seen poems reflecting that.

I started sedating with Whiskey every night to try and dull the emptiness I was feeling.

I’ve never been good with communicating with people I don’t know (Like starting conversations and have always been useless on dating apps like tinder) these feelings compounded during lockdown – like no one wants to date even if they did we’re in a lockdown kind of thoughts…

So I would always sign up for dating apps but wait for people to message me first and when they didn’t I would delete the app and feel even lonelier

It got to a point where I was like fuck this, this shit can’t go on anymore, I need to take action

So I found the worst opening line invented so bad it was good and just sent it to everyone I matched with…

I got unmatched
I got laughed at
But I also got responses
and conversations
and dates…

The point is, Nobody is coming to save us.

We need to take action.

This applies to our health, wealth, relationships
There is something we can take action on today.

Screenshot of the opener and me getting launched at