Old and New Can’t Live Together.

Old and New Can’t Live Together.

Ok this isn’t entirely true, if you go to Rome you’ll see ancient history blended into modern-day living and it makes one beautiful city (I think I’ve never been) Old and new clearly can live together there.

However…

When it comes to me and you

Old cannot live with the New.

The old way of doing things and a new way of thinking that is.

You want to achieve that big goal. That requires a new way of thinking.

But thinking alone can’t change anything…

So you have to change the way you do things too,

You can’t want to lose weight, but still, do the things that made you gain the weight in the first place.

You can’t get rich by doing the stuff that got you broke…

Do you want change?

The old way has to be evicted.

Its a Process… Austin Kleon

Whats a process?

Everything is.

But more specifically, in this case, your Goals are a process.

We tend to forget about the process when we’re chasing goals.

We just want the end product and become frustrated when we don’t get it…

But the end goal will never happen, without the process…

With the obstacles, The struggles, The growth, The Change…

Don’t quit the process

That’s the important bit.

Comparison creates Chaos…

Comparison creates Chaos…

Sallys worked out her whole life, she was on the Athletics team in both school and college, now she works out most nights of the week and eats like an athlete too…

James dad was a pretty successful businessman and got Jame involved early in his teens too, James is also showing some success in Business…

You started yesterday.

So why are you getting frustrated that you don’t look Like sally or you made a bad investment and you’re not as successful as James…

They have 20+ Years of experience

Don’t compare your day 1 results with someones 20th Year of results,

It’s only going to force you to quit from frustration…

Or you’re going to make some bad decisions trying to rush the process… Both will lead to Chaos in your life.

No person is your friend

‘No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.’ Alice Walker⠀

Something happens to the people around you when you start to make a difference in your life,⠀

Especially in your close circle …⠀

The people will either support you or They will try and discourage you, Mock and Laugh at what you’re doing and then try and pull you back into your old ways and habits…⠀

The latter are assholes… But it’s not entirely there fault,⠀

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Remember, Today Is The Tomorrow You Worried About Yesterday

If your anything like me or like I used to be you can’t help but worry about what’s coming tomorrow…

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(Tomorrow being an example of a scenario in the near future that you can’t avoid)

You worry so much about that certain scenario, It’s all you think about all day every day, It consumes you.

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