On a day to day, we engage with different people and with each interaction we wear a different mask…
If you work or have worked in customer services you’ll know what I mean –
Your smiling and being all polite – but you just want to punch the customer in the face, and when you get out of the building you take a deep sigh of relief…
The sigh of relief is you taking off your mask, You can relax and be yourself again..
On your way home from work you have to pop round to see your Grandparents – So you put on your Grandson/daughter mask…
We wear these masks to project an image or identity to the rest of the world…
Continue reading “Many Masks…”
I used to be stuck in that ‘There just lucky’ Mindset,
I remember the personal training days, When I would sit or stand at the top of the stairs
Waiting for people to approach me, They rarely if ever did..
(* The only time I actually got ‘Lucky’ standing at the top of the stairs was when my girlfriend at the time walked in and I was the 1st person she saw and approached for PT)
Continue reading “Make Your Own Good Fortune..”
Funny story about today..
I got up really early to drive 45miles to get to a shift ive been rostered in for ages.. I get there and theres another lad there..
He was was also rosterd in.. however i had been taken off without any email or anyone telling me so another 45miles back..
Continue reading “Amor Fati”
‘What Man Actually Needs is not a Tensionless State but rather the Striving and Struggling for some Goal Worthy of Him’
I’ll never forget the time I got sacked right after my Nans funeral, I don’t think there will ever be a time that will be worse than that and if there is I certainly will not be looking forward to it..
Continue reading “Strive For Meaning..”
‘Why you here, Why you inflicting this pain upon yourself, You could of gone home straight home, Your tired, You don’t need to be here’ – My base level self going to the gym straight after the 11th nights work in a row..
You ever have those workouts where you wonder why your here.. When everyone else is in bed, or sat in Starbucks before work and your putting your self through self inflicted physical pain..
Continue reading “Change Requires Challenge..”