The future gets written today
You may be worried about something that may or may not happen in the future
Like running out of money,
Or filing for divorce
Or getting diabetes or something
But the reality is those things or determined today.
You run out of money because of your spending today, or lack of securing what you had.
You get divorced because you didn’t commit to the marriage as you should have done today
You get diabetes or whatever from what you put or don’t put into your mouth today…
Take the past 15 months everybody has been putting on a mask hoping it will stop them from getting the vid but the majority of cases come from people with pre lifestyle diseases…
A mask won’t save you, it’s your actions
The same with anything your actions today determine your future
Everything you don’t want
Is exactly what you need
What you don’t want to do, see or hear
Is what it takes to succeed in any form of success
Long term commitment, slow results and hard work
In relationships for example (and I know this isn’t everyone’s) but I see a lot on social media many people within a year of a relationship getting engaged.
Now to me that isn’t the long game, that’s still the honey moon period of the relationship where they haven’t been through any real tests, they are rushing results… (But then again I could just be miserable judging from the lonely side line)
Body everyone wants to lose 10 years of bad habits in 2 weeks
And become a millionaire over night
Nobody wants the long term struggle, nobody wants to be told that it will take time, they want results yesterday or they don’t want to do anything
So they spend time hopping from fad to fad, from engagement to engagement hoping to find the one thing to jump them success over night.
When it’s not on your doorstep
What do you do?
Do you wait until another event rolls around closer to you or do you travel the distance.
I’ve been to several events 100s of miles away from where I live, long train or coach journeys, hotels etc.
At the same time in Facebook groups I see people asking will this event be in X place or y place…
Because they don’t want to travel.
Yet even if it was on there doorstep, would they go?
I don’t know… but the question is if its really worth something to you
How far are you willing to go?
People say they don’t give a fuck, or we tell people not to give one
But its not that you shouldn’t give a fuck
Because you should
But it’s to give less fucks about everything and focus more fucks on the things that matter
Like who cares what the Kardashians are doing they don’t really deserve a fuck
When you could be focusing those fucks on say your health, or caring for a loved one
Some things need more energy than others and some things just drain time and energy and results in waisted fucks
Give a fuck
But only on the important things
Fuck the rest
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
No one is responsible for your happiness,
And your not responsible for anyone else’s
No one is responsible for your growth
No one is responsible for your career
No one is responsible for the actions you take, or dont take
Stop waiting for other people to solve your problems,
Stop blaming other people,
Just get out there and tend to your garden and watch what happens
It’s all on you.