The Idea Of Change & Change are completely different.
We all think about change,
We all talk about change,
How we are going to do something…
But how much of what we say do we actually do…
Not a lot.
Because we like the idea, but we don’t like the work, the effort required or the commitment.
If you actually want to change, we have to change.
We have to do that work required.
The picture isn’t reality.
You can put a dog,cat, rabbit… whatever in a picture and they look cute.
You can see a couple in a photo and think they are a dream couple and wish you had what they had
Pictures are captured in a second and a normally staged.
The reality is yeah pets are cute, but you still have to pick up their shit.
Yeah the couple may look cute and dreamy and you might resent your partner for not living up to that fantasy,
The reality though that couple didn’t even connect on that vacation, they spent it just posing for that one perfect picture
Stop basing your dreams on pictures you see,
They dont share the full story, they don’t share even half of it.
In life if you want something you have to do the work, and that work isn’t pretty. That work isn’t something you’ll see on social media.
Tune out of your phone and tune in to the real world.
It isn’t pretty, but at least its real
The Cost Of Victimhood
When you look at anything in your life, You can see it comes down to one thing.
Your results.
You either get them or you don’t.
That’s it.
But we do one of two things when it comes to our results.
We either Own Them Or make excuses for them.
The second is Victimhood.
We blame others, we blame things, We blame this and that, but we never blame ourselves.
So we sit in this land of excuses feeling sorry for ourselves, hating the world.
But the reality is we either Did the work or we didn’t.
If we did the work and didn’t get the result, that’s cool, we did all we could.
If we didn’t do the work, then what the hell are we expecting to happen.
Do the work.
Get out of the land of excuses and Own your life.
Your results.
You either get them or you don’t.
That’s it.
But we do one of two things when it comes to our results.
We either Own Them Or make excuses for them.
The second is Victimhood.
We blame others, we blame things, We blame this and that, but we never blame ourselves.
So we sit in this land of excuses feeling sorry for ourselves, hating the world.
But the reality is we either Did the work or we didn’t.
If we did the work and didn’t get the result, that’s cool, we did all we could.
If we didn’t do the work, then what the hell are we expecting to happen.
Do the work.
Get out of the land of excuses and Own your life.
Fuck you to everyone
Your partner
Your parents
Your kids
Your friends
Your business
And to yourself
That’s what your saying when you procastinate
That’s what you say to them when you don’t do the work
Fuck you.
When you aren’t giving your all, when you aren’t being the person you can be.
Is that how you want to go down…
Saying fuck you to your gifts?
Why are you here?
Questions are important,
Why?
Because they bring answers. Or at least make you think.
The question why are you here, is one of those important questions.
It’s a question to ask yourself whilst at work, or at the gym or even in your relationship…
Why are you here?
There are lots of things in life that we can give a fuck about, so why in your one life are you here in this…
Job,
Doing this workout,
In this relationship,
Doing this buisness
Etc.
Why?
If the answer isn’t good enough,
Then why are you still doing it
Why not do something else…
Something that matters
