It is an option
At some point we need to admit that it’s simply just not working
And we need to move on
It is an option
Don’t let Instagram fool you
Those influencers with their shitty quotes
Not everything works out
Life is not a movie
Giving up allows you to move on
Move on to somthing that might work out
Somthing life changing
But first you need to let go
One you have tried every avenue, every possible scenario
Then you can give up
Just know it is an option
And failure is part of life
Failure leads the way
Failure is a prerequisite to succsess
For those familiar with dating apps, You’ll know it’s all about getting a match now,
Meaning you both swipe right on each other, which allows you to message one and another.
But just because you have a match, does mean you have a date, a partner or even an F-buddy if that’s what you’re after,
There is still a lot of work to be done.
The same is applied in business or even in health
Just because you have a new lead does not mean you have a new customer,
Just because you have a gym membership does not mean you are fit and healthy…
We need to work, and work hard to convert our matches into something,
And a lot of the time they amount to nothing (In my experience anyway :/)
Fuck you to everyone
And to yourself
That’s what your saying when you procastinate
That’s what you say to them when you don’t do the work
When you aren’t giving your all, when you aren’t being the person you can be.
Is that how you want to go down…
Saying fuck you to your gifts?
When it’s not on your doorstep
What do you do?
Do you wait until another event rolls around closer to you or do you travel the distance.
I’ve been to several events 100s of miles away from where I live, long train or coach journeys, hotels etc.
At the same time in Facebook groups I see people asking will this event be in X place or y place…
Because they don’t want to travel.
Yet even if it was on there doorstep, would they go?
I don’t know… but the question is if its really worth something to you
How far are you willing to go?
Failure is for reflection
It’s easy to go into self destruct mode when we fail at something.
We think of all the things that made us stupid, we think of how everything could of gone better, then we just beat ourselves up.
This is not healthy, it won’t change anything and you will not improve in the future
Look at what went wrong, but without the self destruction
Yeah my speech could have gone better so I’ll practice more in the future
Not your bad at speeches you should quit your not worthy of anything.
Lift yourself up, dont drag yourself down