For those familiar with dating apps, You’ll know it’s all about getting a match now,
Meaning you both swipe right on each other, which allows you to message one and another.
But just because you have a match, does mean you have a date, a partner or even an F-buddy if that’s what you’re after,
There is still a lot of work to be done.
The same is applied in business or even in health
Just because you have a new lead does not mean you have a new customer,
Just because you have a gym membership does not mean you are fit and healthy…
We need to work, and work hard to convert our matches into something,
And a lot of the time they amount to nothing (In my experience anyway :/)
Check the details
Giving my brother a lift to a course he was on the other day, and whilst in the car he checked the email they sent him,
And he was like oh shit I didn’t see that, and turns out he needed a few documents to take with him, which he didn’t have…
It’s easy to just check the main points or skim through stuff, making it even easier to miss stuff, important stuff.
There have been countless times I’ve not read the details and turned up in the wrong places, wrong days and just forgot stuff.
All because I couldn’t take a few seconds to read through the details.
We miss the small details in life to when we don’t take the time to think where are these cues coming from…
Why are you and your partner arguing again, what have you missed…
Why are you always waking up with a headache, what’s your body telling you?
Why this, why that…
Life is trying to tell us things, but we are not checking the details.