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New Match

New Match

For those familiar with dating apps, You’ll know it’s all about getting a match now,

Meaning you both swipe right on each other, which allows you to message one and another.

But just because you have a match, does mean you have a date, a partner or even an F-buddy if that’s what you’re after,

There is still a lot of work to be done.

The same is applied in business or even in health

Just because you have a new lead does not mean you have a new customer,

Just because you have a gym membership does not mean you are fit and healthy…

We need to work, and work hard to convert our matches into something,

And a lot of the time they amount to nothing (In my experience anyway :/)

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Do you have a time machine?

Do you have a time machine?

So that you can go back in time and change shit.. No So why dwell on it in the present.

(Not a direct quote) But a quote from Kevin Harts the decision.

We can’t go back and change the stuff we have done or haven’t.

So all we can do is accept it, Its happened, we can’t change it, but we can adapt to it in the present.

We can move forward and deal with whatever happened, But not if we cannot accept it.

So let’s stop the feeling sorry for ourselves and make some forward progress

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You can choose choices

You can choose choices but not outcomes
– The midnight library.

Outcomes are out of our control, we don’t know what’s going to happen, we cant predict what’s going to happen.

Choices though are ours. We can choose to go left or right, not to do or to do.

No matter what we choose there will be some outcome somewhere down the line that will be out of our control.

Even if we choose to do nothing there will be a consequence to that.

So today when it comes to making one of many choices, remember that no matter what something will be out of your control
But you made the choice, so regardless of the outcome, own it because there is no point in regretting the choice you made, after all there will be many more you have to make

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To fight against the darkness

To fight against the darkness is to win

It’s hard
You cant see
It feels like you are carrying the world and more
Your fighting internal battles
And external ones to
Every angle you can’t see an escape

But whatever you do
Dont surrender to the darkness
Dont give up
Keep fighting
The more you fight, the more you push the darkness back,
Eventually you’ll start to see light
But only if you keep fighting.

Defeat the darkness.

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When it’s not on your doorstep

When it’s not on your doorstep

What do you do?

Do you wait until another event rolls around closer to you or do you travel the distance.

I’ve been to several events 100s of miles away from where I live, long train or coach journeys, hotels etc.

At the same time in Facebook groups I see people asking will this event be in X place or y place…

Because they don’t want to travel.

Yet even if it was on there doorstep, would they go?

I don’t know… but the question is if its really worth something to you

How far are you willing to go?