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Actions and Loneliness

Actions and Loneliness
Nobody is coming to save you…

There was a period in the past 12 months where I experienced chronic loneliness, If you follow my blog you would have seen poems reflecting that.

I started sedating with Whiskey every night to try and dull the emptiness I was feeling.

I’ve never been good with communicating with people I don’t know (Like starting conversations and have always been useless on dating apps like tinder) these feelings compounded during lockdown – like no one wants to date even if they did we’re in a lockdown kind of thoughts…

So I would always sign up for dating apps but wait for people to message me first and when they didn’t I would delete the app and feel even lonelier

It got to a point where I was like fuck this, this shit can’t go on anymore, I need to take action

So I found the worst opening line invented so bad it was good and just sent it to everyone I matched with…

I got unmatched
I got laughed at
But I also got responses
and conversations
and dates…

The point is, Nobody is coming to save us.

We need to take action.

This applies to our health, wealth, relationships
There is something we can take action on today.

Screenshot of the opener and me getting launched at

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The game changes when you choose this

The game changes when you choose this

Ideas are great

But when you are always putting others before yourself they get forgotten

You may have every intention to go to the gym or write a book but if your doing favours after favours for everyone they get put on the back burner

When you choose yourself however

The game changes

Because you know you are going to choose what benefits your life first

You choose what will push you forward and not pull you back

Then once you have done what you need to do then if you want to you can help others out

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It is an option

It is an option

At some point we need to admit that it’s simply just not working

And we need to move on

It is an option

Don’t let Instagram fool you

Those influencers with their shitty quotes

Not everything works out

Life is not a movie

Giving up allows you to move on

Move on to somthing that might work out

Somthing life changing

But first you need to let go

One you have tried every avenue, every possible scenario

Then you can give up

Just know it is an option
And failure is part of life

Failure leads the way

Failure is a prerequisite to succsess

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And Hero In the afternoon

The same man can play Craven in the morning and hero in the afternoon

– Last of the Amazons

It can be turned around as fast as that

Just one thought, just one action,  just one stroke of luck

And your whole life could change

When you think that you have been defeated and there is no hope left.

Just remember that there is

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How many time have you put this off?

How many time have you put this off?

Procrastination the curse that just keeps on taking.

Time and time again we are granted with opportunities to accomplish tasks yet we keep giving those opportunities away.

Time and time again and ironically we end up with less and less time…

I started a course a year ago and it expires today,

Guess who’s spending their evening trying to complete it… Me.

Even after a year of lockdowns and countless lazy days…

Think of your many years of procrastination; how the gods have repeatedly granted you further periods of grace, of which you have taken no advantage. It is time now to realise the nature of the universe to which you belong, and of that controlling Power whose offspring you are; and to understand that your time has a limit set to it. Use it, then, to advance your enlightenment; or it will be gone, and never in your power again

– Marcus Aurelius