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Everything you don’t want

Everything you don’t want

Is exactly what you need

What you don’t want to do, see or hear
Is what it takes to succeed in any form of success

Long term commitment, slow results and hard work

In relationships for example (and I know this isn’t everyone’s) but I see a lot on social media many people within a year of a relationship getting engaged.

Now to me that isn’t the long game, that’s still the honey moon period of the relationship where they haven’t been through any real tests, they are rushing results… (But then again I could just be miserable judging from the lonely side line)

Body everyone wants to lose 10 years of bad habits in 2 weeks

And become a millionaire over night

Nobody wants the long term struggle, nobody wants to be told that it will take time, they want results yesterday or they don’t want to do anything

So they spend time hopping from fad to fad, from engagement to engagement hoping to find the one thing to jump them success over night.

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You can’t talk butterfly language to Caterpillar people

You can’t talk butterfly language to Caterpillar people

There is a weird moment when you have realised you have changed,

Its a happy feeling but also sad as well…

Because when you’re talking to the people closest to you they will tell you to shut up or stop going on about that thing again.

And you have that lightbulb moment like ‘Ah I have changed’
Byt then you have that moment of ‘Ah I don’t fit in with these people anymore’

And those people could be your partners, family, friends etc

And you have to either move on or suppress yourself around them.

But sometimes growth requires you to leave things behind.

It’s sad but if you wanna be the butterfly you have to leave behind the caterpillars.

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How much does it take to change?

How much does it take to change?

They say, people don’t change
Or that it’s hard to change…

But I disagree.
It doesn’t take alot to change.

Change can happen from the smallest things.

Maybe something someone said that clicked with you.

Or a book.

I know many peoples lives had changed simply from reading a book.

And they have completely changed there lives around.

It doesn’t take a lot to change.

It just requires doing something different

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You Are Your Only Solution.

Anything else that requires other people is out of your control, and you have to wait for them to change…

We don’t have that kind of time.

We have to do the work,
We have to be the change.

Otherwise, nothing will…

Think about that as we approach the New Year