The universe does not care if you are a nice person.
You can’t sit around expecting good things to happen to you, expecting the universe to reward you for being nice.
You need to take action.
Because to be honest the universe probably does not even know you exist, We are about as relevant to the universe as a pebble on the beach…
So stop expecting the universe to reward you.
You want something, You want magic results, YOu want your life to change…
Then you need to take action.
You need to do the work.
And not just once, but every day until you have the results you want.
Then you need to keep on doing the work to maintain those results and do even more work to get different results.
Because that’s life
And the work never stops.
Its impossible to know everything. No matter how long you spend studying
There will always be someone who knows more than you about something
So its important to know who your back up is when you need an answer or advise
This could be a employer union, an expert in a certain field, a lawyer
There is help and advice out there dont feel like you have to go alone…
Even batman had backup
Failure is for reflection
It’s easy to go into self destruct mode when we fail at something.
We think of all the things that made us stupid, we think of how everything could of gone better, then we just beat ourselves up.
This is not healthy, it won’t change anything and you will not improve in the future
Look at what went wrong, but without the self destruction
Yeah my speech could have gone better so I’ll practice more in the future
Not your bad at speeches you should quit your not worthy of anything.
Lift yourself up, dont drag yourself down
Motivation is not your friend.
If you only wait for motivation to get going then you won’t get very far.
You are never going to find enough motivation to start something completely new,
And if you do it will be hard to get it to stick around once it does show up.
Motivation isn’t a very good freind.
It’s like the one friend who appears after all the chaos has ended and the waters have settled
Don’t rely on that friend
People say they don’t give a fuck, or we tell people not to give one
But its not that you shouldn’t give a fuck
Because you should
But it’s to give less fucks about everything and focus more fucks on the things that matter
Like who cares what the Kardashians are doing they don’t really deserve a fuck
When you could be focusing those fucks on say your health, or caring for a loved one
Some things need more energy than others and some things just drain time and energy and results in waisted fucks
Give a fuck
But only on the important things
Fuck the rest