The more you stop the harder it is to start again and the harder it is to keep going and get momentum.
In terms of exercise the more you stop the harder it is to find motivation to get started again. Then you get mucles soreness and want to stop again. Where as if you just pushed through and kept going you keep gaining momentum.
In relationships if your on and off the on is never going to be the same and you have more chances of breaking up again.
In business if you only market when you need to its going to be a lot harder to get sales than if you marketed consistently.
Basically when your on and off the on gets 10x harder and quitting or being off gets 10x easier so keep going because the off is not worth it
Actions and Loneliness Nobody is coming to save you…
There was a period in the past 12 months where I experienced chronic loneliness, If you follow my blog you would have seen poems reflecting that.
I started sedating with Whiskey every night to try and dull the emptiness I was feeling.
I’ve never been good with communicating with people I don’t know (Like starting conversations and have always been useless on dating apps like tinder) these feelings compounded during lockdown – like no one wants to date even if they did we’re in a lockdown kind of thoughts…
So I would always sign up for dating apps but wait for people to message me first and when they didn’t I would delete the app and feel even lonelier
It got to a point where I was like fuck this, this shit can’t go on anymore, I need to take action
So I found the worst opening line invented so bad it was good and just sent it to everyone I matched with…
I got unmatched I got laughed at But I also got responses and conversations and dates…
The point is, Nobody is coming to save us.
We need to take action.
This applies to our health, wealth, relationships There is something we can take action on today.
Screenshot of the opener and me getting launched at