You’ve sidelined yourself
Now your watching the game of life play out in front of you.
Your watching others do the work you should be doing.
Your watching others get the results you should be getting.
Whilst you sit there and watch.
Whilst you sit there bitching and moaning.
But the stupid thing is…
You benched yourself.
But the good thing is…
You can unbench yourself, you can get up, you can do the work, you can stop moaning.
Because no one else is going to do it for you.
This game we call life…
Only you can control you.
So if you dont like where you are…
Change the way you are playing
Be more like cat, Be more like dog
Be more like cat, cats don’t do anything they don’t want to, it can be cuddling you one minute and as soon as its had enough it will walk off and stare out of a window or something
Cats don’t waist time doing things they don’t want nor do they give a fuck what you think
Dogs enjoy the little things in life, no matter the time, day or weather, give them a ball and they’ll play all day, just enjoying the moment
We should be more like cats and dogs, getting shit done and not worrying about what others think of us and then taking time out to enjoy the moments and having some playtime
Who are you trying to convince
When your talking
Saying that your going to do this and that
You are just trying to convince yourself that you can do it because you don’t believe in yourself
And you are most likely trying to gain approval of others
This rarely works and nothing gets done
The simple solution is to just do the work
Just sit down and do it
Just go for the run
Just do the workout
Whatever you saying your gonna
Just do it before you talk yourself out of it
You have to build the man
Garret J White
In order to be the man you have to build the man.
Its frustrating when your not where you want to be.
Its frustrating when you try and start out but its bloody hard
But you can’t become that person until you build that person
So you can sit in frustration
You can quit because its difficult
But you’ll never be that person
You have to do the work
When your always on and off
The on is going to be 10x harder than the off
Stopping and starting is a killer.
The more you stop the harder it is to start again and the harder it is to keep going and get momentum.
In terms of exercise the more you stop the harder it is to find motivation to get started again. Then you get mucles soreness and want to stop again. Where as if you just pushed through and kept going you keep gaining momentum.
In relationships if your on and off the on is never going to be the same and you have more chances of breaking up again.
In business if you only market when you need to its going to be a lot harder to get sales than if you marketed consistently.
Basically when your on and off the on gets 10x harder and quitting or being off gets 10x easier so keep going because the off is not worth it