Who are you trying to convince
When your talking
Saying that your going to do this and that
You are just trying to convince yourself that you can do it because you don’t believe in yourself
And you are most likely trying to gain approval of others
This rarely works and nothing gets done
The simple solution is to just do the work
Just sit down and do it
Just go for the run
Just do the workout
Whatever you saying your gonna
Just do it before you talk yourself out of it
Perfection is an Anchor
It weighs you down and stops you from moving forward.
When this is perfect I can do this
I can put it onto market
I can make some money or generate leads
Stop those thoughts because they are stopping you from progressing and moving forward
Perfection is the friend that looks like they’re helping but really they’re using you to stay afloat whilst your drowning
Perfection will sink you.
Good is great if the world sees it
Good can be improved upon
But the world will never see perfection
So do the work
But make sure you show it to the world
You have to build the man
Garret J White
In order to be the man you have to build the man.
Its frustrating when your not where you want to be.
Its frustrating when you try and start out but its bloody hard
But you can’t become that person until you build that person
So you can sit in frustration
You can quit because its difficult
But you’ll never be that person
You have to do the work
When your always on and off
The on is going to be 10x harder than the off
Stopping and starting is a killer.
The more you stop the harder it is to start again and the harder it is to keep going and get momentum.
In terms of exercise the more you stop the harder it is to find motivation to get started again. Then you get mucles soreness and want to stop again. Where as if you just pushed through and kept going you keep gaining momentum.
In relationships if your on and off the on is never going to be the same and you have more chances of breaking up again.
In business if you only market when you need to its going to be a lot harder to get sales than if you marketed consistently.
Basically when your on and off the on gets 10x harder and quitting or being off gets 10x easier so keep going because the off is not worth it
Rely On Your Own Strength Instead Of Somebody Else’s Compassion!
When I first started out in personal training
THere was a salesman working at the gym for a while
and he bought an influx of sales in and with that he would bring in
new leads to the Personal trainers as well
I was on great terms with him so he bought me a good deal of those leads to me.
Then he left
And my diary became progressively quieter
I eventually went broke and left
YOu can read about it here >> How I went Broke
I relied on someone else to bring me business
Instead of developing my own strengths and using that.
In life we need to rely on ourselves
Everything else is out of our control.