Small hinges open big doors.
Small actions create big changes
Yet we never focus on the small actions or small hinges.
We wanna do it big
We want to go all out
We want the over night success
Yet that normally leaves us overwhelmed and quitting after 2 weeks
When we haven’t become a crypto millionaire or lost 10 years of bad habits over 2 weeks
But the small actions over time lead to big results, lasting results
Results that we could never achieve with the random acts of bigness
Where in your life can you go small to do big
It’s not a sacrifice
They say you need to sacrifice
To achieve things like
But is it a sacrifice?
Watching Netflix, eating fast food and sweets, playing on your phone whilst dating and similar examples that’s a sacrifice of time energy and money because you ain’t getting that time back…
But when it comes to improving your health and relationships and creating wealth it’s not a sacrifice…
It’s an investment.
The only way you can fuck up
We hold back because were worried we are going to fuck something up, so we hesitate and procrastinate to avoid the pain of fucking up but really the only way we can fuck up is by not doing something.
When we do we learn and gain valuable experience from that even if we fuck up.
By not doing something we fuck up and don’t even learn anything it’s just time waisted being a bitch
Time you can’t get back
Time you could have got experience
Time you could have spent living life
Time you spent living in fear
Kings don’t play the game of right now!
I’ve been playing the game of right now which is why its 12:25am and I’m up posting this.
The game of one more episode, which leads to being wide awake and board at 3am so i turn to porn for entertainment
It leads to being in bed half a day and playing catch up and getting frustrated with people for bothering me because I haven’t done what I wanted to do
A wondering generality who makes up excuses to get me off the hook as to why I’ve failed time and time again
Want to make boss moves in your life
You need to stop making decisions on what is going to please you right now and make decisions on what you want in the future
I.e. fat loss is that treat snack, whatever going to get you what you want?
Make a boss decision
Let’s do the work
Lies make you sick.
Lies including keeping things unsaid and not talking about your hopes and dreams all make you sick,
they get pushed down and you become inauthentic and have no real relationships your living a half truth and and reality isn’t real it’s just a lie you’ve created.
You become sick crushed under the weight of your lies and cant escape because you have no one to talk too and even if you did you wouldn’t know how to communicate nothing but fairness
Start communicating properly tell people how you feel, tell people what your thinking, stop lying
At first this will be difficult but with reps you get better and stronger at communicating
With reps reality becomes clearer
With reps communicating becomes easier
With reps your relationships become stronger