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Those who are hardest to love

Those who are hardest to love, need it the most

Socrates

This is true, Those who are socially awkward and struggle with human connections also need connection the most.

Absence of these things trigger responses in our brains that heighten our sensitivity to human signals, but this could lead us to overlook or overthink the signals that other people don’t see.

It may lead us to think that someone is a threat, or that we will be judged so we retreat inwards or become a bit awkward.

Leaving us the thing that we crave the most to repel it.

When you see someone and you think my god they are awkward or hard work, Take the time to wonder why is it because they are weird or don’t want your company…

Or is it most likely that they want it badly but where they are right now in their heads is kind of awkward?

Take the time when you speak to people, let them come out of their shells slowly once their brain chemistry has perceived you as not a threat.

And you might realise that these weirdos or hard to love people are the most loveable and awesome.

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